How do I deal with a suicidal boyfriend in a long distance relationship?

Hello everyone.





Me and my boyfriend never see eachother. We talk everyday, either online or on the phone. It kills us to be apart. We are both very commited and very much in love with eachother.


He has a very bad temper that he sometimes cant control. He doesnt take help, listen to, or trust anyone but me.


He has been through alot in his life. His mom died when he was born, so he was left on the side of the road by his father. he was born in india.


He does not get along with his ';mother'; and he is very suicidal. I have gone through this with him before but it is only getting worse. I cant stop him anymore. he is shutting everyone out. And since i am the only one who can help, i have tons of guilt if something happens. Me and him have made a lot of promises to one another and had alot of plans. he is changing who he is and going back on everything he has said.





What do i do here?How do I deal with a suicidal boyfriend in a long distance relationship?
Tell him to tie a rope around a door knob, throw the rope over the door, get a milk crate, stand on it, tie the rope around his neck, kick the milk crate out and BAM! another f*cking idiot out of our hair that won't hurt or abuse anyone, simple as that. Hope this helps.How do I deal with a suicidal boyfriend in a long distance relationship?
lets keep in mind i love this boy. That was uncalled for.

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Try and find a way to go see him, he need to get more positive thoughts going on and you need to remind him of the promise and remind him that people may have hurt him in the past but you are here for him forever, He need reassurance and you should try and go see him if you can it would probabaly help him alot
i can relate..strongly. and im in your same situation. just him thinking positive(or try to)and maybe encourage him to get involved in something out of school like a sport or something
pray 4 him..only God can save him from doing it..
well.i would.OH I GOT IT! PICK ME!!! PICK ME!! okay ill go anway. okay my answer is.





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remind him of his promises, and that he's strong enough to not let this break him down. tramatic experiences create a unique and valuable characteristic in a person...they just...idk, appreciate more, see things in a new way, think about important things...he needs to realize this. and he doesnt have to let his past affect him now. why should it? his mother died - it happens. his father dumped him - ppl are selfish, but some arent....some care for him, like you. you cant fix what happened in the past but you can help him create a new future, and he needs to be told this....nothing binds him to his past.