Long Distance Relationship with Fiancee but she ends everything to be independent & do things her own.?

Hello, Im confused and hurt. do you think i should just move on and cut off all ties with this female. I didnt do anything to this woman but be there for her like a man should be, i helped got her own place to stay, giving her money to have to live, calling and texting her everyday to talk. im in california and shes in st maarten. but i was making a transition to go down and stay with her in the place i got for us to stay in. and bring her back with me to live. but anyway, all of sudden..without talking to me %26amp; letting me know how she was feeling. she wants to end everything, the engagement, our relationship, and just wants to be friends. now in my heart i believe she done something wrong and dont want to tell me the whole truth about something. cause in an email she wrote, all she says she feels hurt of what she had done to me, and how she hurt my feelings. and when i ask what did you do and why so fast you come with an solution like this to end everything, she says respect her decisions, and when ask to come down and see her. she says its not a good idea for both of us to see each other and she doesnt want to see me. so after all the time and effort i put into this relationship, taking care of this woman, being there for this woman. should i just go on and find better. cause all this came about when she started talking to one of her friends that had problems with his relationhip, they started talking everynight, spending hours in his car talking, even fell asleep in his car one night, she tells me one of the reason why she wants to end it all cause all of the calling and she could'nt deal with, in the beginning she was confindent and serious about being in a long distance relationship %26amp; now she doesnt want to be, she thought she could and want tell me the other reasons why she dont want me. i'm really hurt here. i was doing everything i could to make this relationship work and she stabbed me in the back. What should I do? I know there is better out there for me and someone that will love me for me. Was I being used all this time? Help Me!!Long Distance Relationship with Fiancee but she ends everything to be independent %26amp; do things her own.?
You bought her a house? a ring? and you gave her money.


You were being used. she obviously liked you but not enough to kep her occupied and tied to your relationship.


She met her friend and fell for him. and is over you...completly


i'm sorry


But you need to move on.Long Distance Relationship with Fiancee but she ends everything to be independent %26amp; do things her own.?
help YOURSELF. end the relationship. just walk away. no more talking. its over.





you know good and well you dont want someone like this in your life and you certainly dont deserve it. you got abused, tricked, used. it happens to girls all the time and yes it hurts a lot!





do you want a girl who hurts you? no.


do you want a girl who abuses you and your trust? no.


do you want a girl who stays up all night with a guy in his car? no.





do you want a girl who treasures you? yes.


do you want a girl who adores you? yes.


do you want a girl who gives you the respect you deserve? yes.


do you want a girl who is your best friend and cant wait to show you off? yes.





you have a big heart. protect it!! put the emotions aside and think... clear your mind. do you want this? is she worth even one more phone call? girls like this need to be put in their place. show her you are strong without her, show her you can stand up for yourself. THAT is what is attractive to a woman.





i promise you, one day your dream girl will come along. she cant find you if youre with miss user-pants.





God loves you and has someone for you... give it a chance.





Hang in there. Be strong. And pick your head up, youre a great guy.
it an be like she may have fallen in love with some other guy out there n i understand your feelings n what u r going through i m just telling you to face it... or the other reason may be that she would need some space from you dont call her for a few days n wait if she returns and if not try to leave your past behind and i m sure that you will definately find true love n try and understand her also at times long distance relationships do become a problem