my boyfriend live 2 hours away from me, and a lot of guys at my school have asked me out and im not sure if i like them or not, what do i do? do i try and make it work with the guy far away, or go out with a guy close to home?How do u deal with long distance relationships?
Just remember this, what goes around comes around. That goes for both you and your b/fHow do u deal with long distance relationships?
If you are in love you should work it out and have some patients be cause you could lose someone special.
At your age... 2 hours away is just too far to have a REAL relationship.
I advise that BOTH of you start seeing other people. You can still continue to communicate %26lt;being loyal to your new mates of course%26gt;
Who knows where each of you will be after school..... and if you kept in contact during those two years.... you may THEN want to consider a relationship..... cuz by then, you will have learned alot about yourselves and each other.... making the chance for a successful relationship alot higher
I would tell my friend that I have been asked out by other guys, and see what he says when you show interest in dating them. I would personally go out with other guys, and see how it goes, but if they don't, don't worry.
Do what ur heart tells you to do. How old are u? Can either of u drive all the time to see each other. Not sure if you like them or not....then i would say u dont. The question is do u love your b/f.
It all depends on if the guy is giving you want you need and desire but if your only school age then your too young to settle with one guy so why not explore your options
How serious are you about the guy two hours away? If he's worth waiting for and being faithful to, then make it work.
Talk to him about your fears and temptations, maybe that will make him open up to you and you can find out just how serious he is about you.
Relationships take work, long-distance relationships take extra work!
LOOK GIRL, IT'S DIFFICULT BUT SEE IT THIS WAY. IS YOUR BOYFRIEND THERE FOR YOU TO HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS?? IS HE RELYABLE??? HE MAY LOVE YOU BUT UNDERSTAND THAT YOU NEED MORE FROM HIM THAN JUST A PHONE CALL FROM HIM. TRY TO WORK SOMETHING OUT. IF NOT BRAKE UP, GIVE IT A SHOT WITH OTHER GUYS AND IF IT DOESN'T WORK THEN TRY TO WORK SOMETHING OUT WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. BUT FIRST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!! oK... WHICH YOU THE BEST GIRL@!
if your old enough to drive then that's not that far, if your not then read a book and stop dating
a bird in hand is worth two in the bush. go for the one next to u b4 too late, hurry!!!
by moving closer to the other person......turn it into a short distance
well I am not sure on how old you are and what it is you really want. But I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend is over 450 miles away from me. But the way I see it if you listen to your heart and you truly love him and have no doubt then stay with him. But if you asking questions about your relationship maybe he is not the one for you. You have to look on how he treats you and is also depends on weather or not you really trust him. I am not sure if this really helps you but I wish you the best in what you deside.
get a new one close to home
Girl go out with those prospect, because he is probably cheating on you. But I don't see 2 hours as being long distance try another country like Iraq.
Go slow. The both of you have your entire lives well ahead of you on the horizon and sometimes that road can get very scarey. Take time to toughen up and build that love muscle of character and ya, baby... cleanliness of spirit.
It might surprise you to discover what 2 years of celibacy in a relationship on the long haul could bring you. Both of you would likely relate to and understand one another, consciously speaking, light years ahead of those who had initially linked up otherwise. Plenty of time to link up in the flesh when the rewards are in. Build that character.
The Sultan knows it ;)
It's all about following your heart..just a question of do you want to be with this guy or not. I had the same problem a few years ago..things just werent working out and we both decided it would be best if we were just friends b/c he wasn't gonna move here and I wasn't gonna move there. Thats just what my heart told me but yours may say something different.
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