Long distance relationship sex therapy?

My boyfriend and I met in person we have a long and wonderful history. My question isn't about whether or not i should be in a long distance relationship. My question is how can we deal with the sexual factor of our relationship. We've been together for 7 months this week and we send pictures but cant webcam. What can we do to ease the tension. Is there an easy way to ease into phone sex without ruining our relationship? Please help!!!Long distance relationship sex therapy?
phone sex helps i really see no problem in doing it over the phone. just remember don't be boring share ever detail to him and take it slow to build it all up. don't stop in the middle of it too and give him blue balls. that would really piss him offLong distance relationship sex therapy?
Sex between two willing partners is a matter of extreme privacy as well as mutual consent depending on various factors like age, safety and societal circumstances. In my personal opinion sex is an important ingredient in a healthy relationship but matters get complicated when we think about it as some special act of amusement and it occupies our mind most of the time creating obstacles and problems in our daily routine life.





You should discuss it openly and thoroughly - the desire, the practicality and the possible consequences that may arise later. Having good physical relationship will free up your mind and you both can be more productive as a result. The first thing you should do is learn about safe sex, if you don't then note one thing very clearly - a small mistake can ruin your life, for example if you get pregnant or have some infection. This is not to scare you but to make my point clear.





My advice is - go enjoy your life with free mind but with care and consideration.
Try doing it for 2 years, like I've had to do.....without ever meeting....theres nothing you can really do, besides that. Make frequent trips. Everything else like webcams, phone sex, what not, grows very thin, very quickly.
It all depends on how long you plan to be separated and how old you are. If you're in high school, for instance, and he's gone off to college, it's best that you simply break up and move on. When you're both done with college, if you're both single, you can get back together.





But if you're older and both settled in your lives (done with college and working at your regular, long-term jobs), then you don't need to break up if you're only going to be separated for a few months. If it's more or less a permanent separation, the spare yourself and your boyfriend and go ahead and break up.





Really, you'll be much better off to free each other to find someone more compatible if only because the other person is local.





If you're planning to stay together through a short separation, there's nothing wrong with phone sex assuming that you've had actual sex at some point. I can't imagine that it's satisfying, though.





And reading the Bible has got to be the worse advice ever. I hope you ignore it.
You need to meet in person.


All that non-sexual sex is just a frustrating alternative.


It might make you crazy too.
Masturbate, web cam, phone sex, writing sexy letters and sending sexy pics or if all else fails, go read the bible.
humorously there are actually toys designed for that these days.





So... you can conceivably actually have sex remotely, enjoy :)
Well I would suggest maybe record yourself masturbating and have him do the same and if you want it to be over the phone just do an audio recording and try it that way first and it will most likely make you both feel more omfortable and less shy or embarresed.
phone sex, sexting, webcam work well. then when you do see each other, make the most of it :-) it'll probably mean more to you to be together, if you don't see each other often. good luck :-)





someone answer mine please thanks!





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