Move on. Anyone who dumps you and says they don't feel the same towards you isn't worth keeping as a friend. He doesn't love you-- people who love don't dump the person they claim to love.Long-distance relationship...?
As the saying goes, ';If you truly love someone, let them go. If he/she returns, then you were meant to be. If he/she doesn't return, let them go - for they were never yours to begin with.'; In order to be a good couple, you must be good individuals. And if you know yourself well enough, then you'll discover that A) He's the one for you and you should just wait for him to discover that on his own, or B) You deserve better because someone that claims he loves you shouldn't have left in the first place. Good luck!
Don't do it! It is painful but if you love someone set them free if it is meant to be they will return back to me. Best of Luck.
as much as this is hurting you right now, you need to go with it and begin the healing process. the majority of long-distance relationships fail because it's just too much pressure on those involved. also, if you become more accepting %26amp; understanding, you will have a stronger likelihood of getting back together with him at some point in the future if there is any possibility of resurrecting the relationship. if you continue to resist, he may begin to resent you for not respecting him and his wishes.
if it's truly meant to be, there isn't anything in the world that can keep the two of you apart. if it isn't meant to be, why would you want to waste your time with someone that isn't meant for you?
GOOD LUCK!!!
Hmmmm...if he broke up with you last night explaining that he doesn't feel for you what he was feeling before....I really see no reason why he should come over this Summer and spend some time with you...He just dumped you because he's obviously not into you! So, why are you still there for him? Friends? Who wants to be his friend anyway!!!...Just tell him that since he left you, it's obviously over, so you'd rather call it all off (friendship included) and leave him behind for good.
If he loves you, he'll come back.
My best friend had a 9 month long distance relationship with her boyfriend he came back and everything was fine they just continued where they left off. My best friends when they were apart they gained a lot of independence. So when he came back it was different for both of them. For example they didnt rely on each other as much but they still loved one another. If he wants a break give it to him let him go... i know it hurts.. if he really loves u he'll come back i promise. My best friends love each other deeply and they never had this kind of problem. So this just may be the end... but dont worry there are plenty of fish in the sea... if he comes back and just wants to be friends stay friends. Dont let him walk all over u, have pride and dont get back together with him if he is not sure. u know people only understand how much they love someone or something when they lose it. Show him he lost u,and he may be crawling back :)
im sorry to tell you but long distant relationships never work out and if u can get them to kudos to u but from experiance i would move on cuz how do u know he aint with someone else
JUst make sure he's not too afraid to tell you it's over and isn't telling you the truth. Guys can't seem to be able to just say its over, they have to do the whole, we're better off friends thing. When they really mean, I'm done. However if he really means what he said, that you need to get to know each other in person, then that is great, and wise on his part. A lot of fantasy can be built around a long distance relationship and its good to see if you are compatible in person too. What you need to ask him is to be up front with you. Tell him that you'd rather him just break up with you entirely if that is what he means to do, it'll hurt less then spending so much time with him and THEN him ending it. Make sure he's not being either a coward or trying to keep you as an option, on the back burner, without committing himself. That's just selfish. Either you are dating or you are not, there is no in between. If he still wants to spend time with you over the summer it is still dating. If he doesn't want to date, then don't spend that time with him, hard as that may be for you. It'll hurt less later.
Well, my husband is going over seas. He is in the air force and we are about to be apart for 7 months and 3 days. The things we are doing and are planning to do are stuff like... try and talk as much as possible, but when the other person wants some time, give it to them, or they will feel burdened to just talk to you and not live their life. If you really feel like talking to them, write them a letter, no matter when it is, just write to them, whether you send it to them or not, it will make you feel better. One more thing...if it is meant to be...you guys will be together.
if you love him let him go if he comes back to you its truley meant to be
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