Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to deal with long distance gay love?

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and its been going very well and deeply in love with each other since we been together for a year. but i have to question a few things cause he is newly gay and has never had the chance to be with a guy before and now recently he tells me that he wants to suck other guys but nothing more.. or does not mind if i do the same but does not want a open relationship. so now i kinda question his love cause idk if its just me but i feel the person u are with should only have eyes for u and not want u to do any kinda sexual interactions with someone else..so if anyone can help me plz cause I still love him and really don't want to lose him...but if anyone understand about being in love and believe if i should stay or go i would appreciate the helpHow to deal with long distance gay love?
This is a huge question. I guess, it will hurt if he does this but ask yourself....do you wish to be with anyone else because of the distance. If not, than tell him no. If he still wants to, than leave because the hurt, the anger, and the like will poison any relationship.


If you feel kinda like playing when he is so far away, than set down rules and work it out.How to deal with long distance gay love?
You can be in love and still find other men sexy, it'd be odd if you didn't.





However, and sorry for this, but he is only just coming to terms with his sexuality. He's going to want to get out there eventually and start practising what he preaches so to speak. It's not really a good idea for either of you to embark on a relationship where you barely get to see each other. He's going to have a very difficult time remaining faithful and you're probably going to get hurt in the long run.





Right now you're safe for him, because taking the first steps are scary.

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