Friday, August 20, 2010

Long Distance Relationship?

I am currently in a long distance relationship- well he lives about 2 hours away from me- and I was just wondering if anyone has any wisdom they can pass down to me regarding handling and learning to accept it?





Im having a very hard time with this long distance thing. He lives a hop, skip and a couple towns away but he works all the time and so do I. He works Sunday through Friday and I work Monday through Friday so Saturday is the only day we have time to see each other (but not always).





I guess what I am asking is to anyone who have been in this situation- How do you handle missing your significant other? how do you deal with not being able to be there for them or have them be there for you in tough times....? I find my self more upset over this relationship than I am happy about it. I really care about him and I don't want to jeopardize it in anyway but I cant help but let how I feel interfere.....Long Distance Relationship?
I am in one now and it is working so far. it gives you time to do what you want. now i'm not sure if you guys were together for a while before you started the long distance thing...but if you were then hopefully it should be stronger. one thing i would highly recommend is a web camera. sure, phones do the trick, but being able to see the one you love while you are talking to them is so much better. you can sort of pretend you're hanging out together...watch tv, play a game like battleship, or show off the new clothes you bought.





don't give up hope just yet. i was unhappy for a while at the beginning as well...but as long as you trust the person and have open communication you should be fine. keep yourself busy so the time passes by faster and you'll have plenty to talk about.





do you know when you will be able to live near each other again? hopefully you have a light at the end of the tunnel,Long Distance Relationship?
long distance relationships never work out. they result in both people being severely hurt, some to the point of not being able to trust another man/woman again. get out now, while you can!
im in a long-distance relationship myself my gf is in college during the day but i always chat with her online after she gets done studying. everything is working out fine with me and her bc we trust one another.

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