How Do I Deal With a Long Distance Relationship and trust issues?

I'm 24 and I have been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He plays baseball, and is currently overseas in Italy playing for the next month. On top of that, i live on the east coast and he lives on the west coast when its the off-season.


Ive been in long distance relationships before, but i have trust issues and some nights i worry myself sick over thinking about him cheating or whatnot, even though he has never once shown to have any of those characteristics. I base it on previous relationships i have had that have gone bad.


Is there any way i can calm myself down and stop worrying and focusing on it? I am used to talking to him in one way or another (phone, email, texts), but with him in Italy, we cant always speak as often, so that doesnt help.


I really do like him a lot and i do not want to jeopardise our relationship because of these issues.





Any advice would be awesome. :)How Do I Deal With a Long Distance Relationship and trust issues?
Unless he's done something to warrent them, you have to let the trust issues go.Trust is like credit. You give it freely to the person you love. If they default - you cancel their account...ie..the relationship. The thing is you can't let baggage from previous relationships affect this one.





Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain. It takes the right mindset to accept the parameters of that type of relationship. If you have trust issues, maybe you should avoid them.How Do I Deal With a Long Distance Relationship and trust issues?
How long before the two of you can live in the same local area? If it's not w/in the next year then why even pursue this? LDRs are frought with frustration, mistrust, and worry because the truth of the matter is ya never really know what the other person is up to (much less so than if they were living local).





You've either got to accept that you have no control over his actions and there's no point in worrying about what he ';might'; be doing, or end the situation because constant worry and frustration over rarely seeing each other is (imo) nothing short of masochistic.
hi.... i am Jay of india male....35 i'm married


really ....i too had this kind of fever(u can call like this) this is the experience most of them get during thier teenage...dont worry stop thinking too much be practical... and courageous


.......happy endings!!!


byee





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