How hard is it to deal with a long distance relationship?

My girlfriend is leaving for college in the summer. I have been with her for almost 2 years and there is no fear of either of us not being loyal. Although I am nervous and still worried about the whole idea, have you been through it? What made it work out in the end, or what made it end? Thank you for your time. Appreciate your answers.How hard is it to deal with a long distance relationship?
if you love her than you will make it work it will challenge the love you have for each other. i have had a long distance relationship with someone in the army. i think he ended up cheating on me but have no proof. he left the army after 8 months we had a kid together and he treated me badly so i left him when i was pregnant. he has never seen his kid.How hard is it to deal with a long distance relationship?
It can work depending on how strong the relationship is.. trust is the key - good luck
It is tough to have a long distance relationship. Especially when you are real close to her.
It is really not about loyalty. It is about needs. When away you are not getting any of your needs for affection and closeness. Phone is difficult to communicte at the level a good relationship needs. Try to do as many visits as possible. When you are apart it is easier for one or both of you to change and harder for the other one to keep up with that change. That's the nature of 'growing apart'. What makes it work is if it's temporary and everyone knows the endpoint when you will be able to be together. That's why i think visits are good.
It all depends on how committed you two are towards each other. You have to have that amount of respect for each other not to hurt the other one. My husband and I had a long distance relationship before we were married and although it was hard, we worked through it. You have to have that love and respect for your partner to make it work. If you don't then do not even attempt it. Good Luck!
Its hard chicka, i've done it and i lasted 4 years his name was Lee and he lived in a state out of U.s. And his Language was so cute and different its so unreal. but he was so sweet called me every day spent alot of time talking on the phone.





Trust me, if she loves you like you put it, done deal. she wants you and only you, its so hard to tell a guy like ya and others that are sweet, that are with a girl for a long a** time she wants you shes with you for 2 years she loves you and only you ok. Trust me





When she gets back she will say she missed you and she did and she will be thinking of you. i've never had a relationship where he lived far and went to college but i did have a long long long distance relationship.





Hope i helped
long distance relationships are really really hard. There are only a very few people who actually get through it. Both people have to be really determined to be together. What happens is at the begining you keep in touch really often %26amp; try to share your life as much as possible under the circumstances. but after a while since both people have things to do like school %26amp; work and no one can actually be alone so they start making new friends and stuff so they start to drift away.


Sorry if my answer is negative, but these are facts %26amp; its better to face them now %26amp; take precautions. But nevertheless it is possible to come out of a long distance realtionship successfully. I myself am in one %26amp; its very very tough but we're still holding on so good luck to u!
When I went to law school, my girlfriend cheated on me a couple of times with her guy friend she met soon after I left. I was able to forgive her after I found out because (she has no clue) I slept with A LOT of dirty girls. I WIN.
Go make babies.
if u are gunna be in different time zones..just 4get about it...
I've been in two long distance relationships, and neither one worked out, but not so much because it was long distance. Distance can put a strain on a relationship, but if you are both mature and commited to each other, you can endure that strain. Weak relationships fall apart with distance, and people begin to see whether they actualy care about their girlfriend/boyfriend selflessly, or whether they are just in it to satisfy their own needs. Strong relationships endure the test, and emerge stronger than they were before.
After many girlfriends (maybe 50 or so) and a couple of ex-wives, I have been in a long distance relationship for four and a half years and it is the best relationship I have ever been in. She meets my needs and I meet hers and we are dedicated to each other. Family illnesses and our careers have kept us apart. Fortunately, my work has allowed me to spend large amounts of time with her but, we have gone months at a time without seeing each other. Thanks to In Network calling, we are able to spend hours each day on the phone which we still do every day. If you are right for each other, it will work out. If you are not, it won't.
well it can work out if you trust eachother thats the main key is trust
I met my boyfriend and 2 months later he moved really far its a 5 hour flight weve been together a year it works but its really hard. it requires lots of effort to keep it interesting like maybe sending a letter email lots of calling. and try to visit each other please always always speak your mind. always speak your feelings its the only way ( i play monopoly and other games with him online) www.Games.com
most of the time its realy not worth it. you never know whether or not there with some else.