How can i deal with a long distance relationship?

me and my girlfriend have been ';together'; for 10 months now and we live an hr away from each other,and i want to know when its going to get easier and when i go off to college in sep of ';09'; 8 hrs away how can our relationship get any better if its hard with just an hr?How can i deal with a long distance relationship?
It won't get easier. It will only get worse. One of you or the other will eventually find someone locally and it will be over. Save yourself the heartache and settle things now before your heart gets ran through a blender.How can i deal with a long distance relationship?
I am so glad that i came across this question. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months. I live in Phoenix and he lives in Great Falls Montana. It's really hard and I envy your situation.





I think that during your last few months together before college, you two should try to get a little deeper in your understanding of eachother. Love is the one thing that triumphs over all. It can work if you both just try. I understand how you're feeling, and these sorts of things either work out beautifully, or end badly.





Try to remember that things happen for a reason. Maybe while you two are farther apart, you will grow as people and become better for it.





Dedication is the key in all of this. You'll find a way. Love is never a mistake.





%26lt;3 Aurora
Long distance relationships need commitment, trust, and especially love from both sides. If you're thinking that your relationship won't last then its probably because you're starting to get jitters of all the new possibilities awaiting in college. Talk to your girlfriend, if she feels the same way then you two should break it off.
My boyfriend and I are an hour away and it is hard. We've been together a year. Something that makes it easier is just looking forward to the day that we finally do get to see eachother. For example, on Monday thinking throughout the week just keep thinking that Friday isn't too far and you'll finally get to see her.





I don't know how to help with the eight hour thing. That would be hard.
i dated a guy who lives in germany for almost 2 years, so if you really care about the person you will make it work. but if you dont see a long term future with her, its best to end it instead of putting you both through a lot of pain. this will allow you both to experience things and live your own lives and if you get back together in the future, great, if not...it probably wasnt meant to be. good luck
Congrats on 10 months, its obvious she likes you to stay with you for so long, yall getting married?.. joking.. But only the strong survive long distance. If you talk everyday on see each other on the weekend or every other weekend, yall will be fine.
An hour?


Thats NOTHING.


Try being opposite ends of the country for like 4 years.


If you can't cope now, you won't cope with 8 hours at all, trust me. haha
talk tro email and on the phone and go see her
It's possible. I met my fiance online. We've dated for 7 years =)


He lives in Georgia and me Ontario