My gf and I live apart right now...she's in med school and I just accepted a really good marketing position. We have always had a healthy sex life but with the distance, not so much. We've been having phone sex and I was under the impression she really enjoyed that still. However, the other day i was informed that although she got off and it felt good she hated it. She says it makes her feel dirty and gross and that she doesn't think I know how to turn her on anymore. Long story short she says I make her feel like i want to ';blow a load'; instead of being with her - and that it seems demeaning how I talk.
So I need help on how I should be talking to her. I talk raunchy and I really am a sweet guy but I don't know how to be sweet and sexual at the same time through words... what types of things do women want to hear when having phone sex?How to deal with my new long distance relationship/phone sex?
Jeez, you got me there. I have absolutely no idea! It's probably hard for you two to see each other, but maybe you could try web cams? Try to travel out there as often as you can. As for what women want to hear? Well, I think that depends more on the woman. It sounds like it would be more fun for your girlfriend if you planned a trip out on the phone, and talked about all the things you wanted to do while you were visiting ;)
Good luck.
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